Anyone But You Review: Why The Rom-Com Became A Hit

Sydney Sweeney and Glen Powell's unlikely chemistry proved the rom-com genre still commands serious box office power in theaters.

Anyone But You became a box office sensation because it arrived at the exact moment audiences were hungry for escapist romantic comedy, paired with genuine chemistry between its leads and a deceptively smart marketing strategy that leaned into social media rather than traditional promotion. The film, released in December 2023, grossed over $218 million worldwide on a production budget of approximately $25 million—a return that rivaled major studio tentpoles and proved that romantic comedies, written off by Hollywood for years, still had massive audience appeal. Sydney Sweeney and Glen Powell’s effortless banter and evident liking of each other on screen gave the film an authenticity that viewers could feel immediately, turning what could have been a forgettable streaming afterthought into a genuine cultural phenomenon.

The rom-com’s success wasn’t accidental. It benefited from Columbia Pictures’ decision to give it a theatrical release rather than burying it on a streaming service, a choice that allowed word-of-mouth momentum to build organically. The film’s post-credits scene and its willingness to self-aware about rom-com tropes—including calling out its own implausibility—created a viewing experience that felt fresh rather than retreading familiar ground.

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How Anyone But You Defied The Death of Theatrical Rom-Coms

The romantic comedy genre had been essentially abandoned by major studios for nearly a decade. Between 2014 and 2023, Hollywood shifted rom-com investment toward streaming platforms, where films were used primarily as subscriber acquisition tools rather than vehicles for theatrical profits. anyone But You’s $218 million worldwide gross proved this assumption catastrophically wrong, demonstrating that audiences would absolutely support a well-made romantic comedy in theaters—they had simply been starved of quality options. Compare this to the 2018 romantic comedy Crazy Rich Asians, which grossed $238 million worldwide and was celebrated as a blockbuster at the time; Anyone But You matched that performance a full five years later, despite the industry’s continued skepticism about the genre’s viability.

The film’s theatrical release window was strategic. A December release positioned it perfectly for holiday moviegoing, a season typically dominated by action films and family content. But Any But You offered something different: a movie couples could see together, that didn’t require extensive emotional investment or familiarity with prior installments, and that promised entertainment without pretension. This counterprogramming approach worked because the film faced minimal competition from other genuine romantic comedies, a scarcity that had created genuine audience hunger.

The Chemistry Between Sydney Sweeney and Glen Powell as Box Office Currency

The film’s casting was simultaneously obvious and crucial. Sydney Sweeney brought name recognition from her role in the HBO series Euphoria, while Glen Powell was ascending toward mainstream stardom following Top Gun: Maverick. Neither actor was at the A-list level of traditional rom-com leads from the 1990s and 2000s, but both possessed the combination of attractiveness, humor, and vulnerability the genre demands. What separated this pairing from countless failed rom-coms was genuine rapport—viewers could feel that these actors actually enjoyed working together, a quality that cannot be faked on screen and that becomes immediately obvious when it’s absent. The on-screen chemistry mattered because it functioned as the film’s primary mechanism for suspension of disbelief. Romantic comedies require audiences to accept contrived circumstances and improbable coincidences as a trade-off for the pleasure of watching two people realize they’re meant for each other.

When actors lack chemistry, these contrivances become tedious. When they have it, the same plot points feel inevitable and earned. Sweeney and Powell’s banter in Anyone But You made viewers want the characters to end up together, transforming what could have been eye-rolling romantic obstacles into genuinely compelling complications. A limitation of relying on chemistry as a film’s central selling point is that it can overshadow or excuse other shortcomings. Anyone But You’s plot is genuinely thin—two exes pretend to still be together at a destination wedding—and its supporting characters are deliberately underdeveloped. The film survives these structural weaknesses because viewers came primarily for the leads’ interaction. This also means the film has limited rewatchability once the central romantic tension has resolved; without genuine stakes or character complexity elsewhere in the narrative, subsequent viewings become more about nostalgia than discovery.

Worldwide Box Office: Anyone But You vs. Recent Rom-ComsAnyone But You (2023)218$MCrazy Rich Asians (2018)238$MLove Hard (Netflix)0$MSet It Up (Netflix)0$MThe Proposal (2009)317$MSource: Box Office Mojo, Netflix subscriber data

TikTok and The Resurrection of Word-of-Mouth Marketing

Social media virality, particularly on TikTok, transformed Anyone But You from a solid genre entry into a cultural event. Clips from the film circulated widely, with the movie’s humor translating particularly well to short-form video. The most iconic moment—a scene in which Glen Powell’s character reacts to Sweeney’s line with visible attraction—became a widely-shared reaction template. This organic viral spread functioned as free marketing worth millions in traditional advertising spend, reaching audiences that major studios typically cannot target efficiently through paid ads. The film’s creators understood that TikTok virality required specific elements: moments of humor that landed in under 30 seconds, physical comedy that didn’t require context, and enough strangeness or absurdity to merit sharing. Anyone But You delivered these elements consistently.

The film’s post-credits scene, which wrapped the narrative while also winking at the audience about its own ridiculousness, became its own viral moment, with people returning to theaters specifically to see what happened after the credits rolled. This created a secondary marketing loop entirely separate from traditional advertising. The warning here is that viral success is not predictable and not replicable through strategy alone. Studios have attempted to manufacture TikTok virality through purposeful inclusion of trending sounds or aesthetics, and those efforts almost universally fail because audiences can sense the calculated authenticity. Anyone But You’s virality worked because the humor was genuine and the moments felt earned within the narrative, not inserted for social media purposes. Attempting to replicate this formula by design typically produces cloying content that audiences resent.

The Post-Pandemic Rom-Com Appetite and Cultural Timing

After years of pandemic isolation and the emotional exhaustion of global crisis coverage, audiences were genuinely ready for uncomplicated entertainment that promised happiness. Romantic comedies, with their guaranteed happy endings and focus on connection and relationship, offered exactly what viewers needed. Anyone But You arrived in this cultural moment and satisfied an appetite that had been building since 2020. The film didn’t require audiences to feel sad or think deeply about complicated themes; it simply asked them to laugh and enjoy watching two attractive people fall in love in an exotic location. This hunger for feel-good content created a competitive advantage for Any But You relative to other films in the marketplace.

A dark thriller or serious drama might offer more narrative complexity, but they couldn’t offer the same escape. Meanwhile, other comedies released in the same period often relied on irony or cynicism about relationships themselves, whereas Anyone But You played the romance entirely straight, offering sincerity as its own form of radicalism in a media landscape saturated with ironic detachment. The comparison point here is crucial: The success of Anyone But You should have signaled to studios that audiences wanted more romantic comedies, yet years later, rom-com theatrical releases remain rare. The film’s success was treated as an anomaly rather than a data point about audience demand. Studios continue to treat romantic comedies as something to be shuffled to streaming, a decision that abandons billions in potential box office revenue. The film proved the demand existed, but the industry has largely failed to respond with increased investment in the genre.

Plot Predictability and Genre Convention as Feature Rather Than Bug

The plot of Anyone But You—exes forced into close proximity rediscover their connection—is among the oldest structures in romance fiction. The beats are predictable: initial conflict, forced teamwork leading to moment of actual danger or emotional truth, misunderstanding or obstacle that threatens the relationship, final gesture of commitment. A viewer who has seen three romantic comedies can predict every major story moment in Anyone But You. This predictability is not a flaw; it is the genre’s fundamental appeal. What separates a successful romantic comedy from a failed one is not plot originality but execution—the quality of the writing, the appeal of the characters, and the consistency of tone. Anyone But You executed these fundamentals well.

The dialogue was sharp without being ornate, the humor came from character and situation rather than forced one-liners, and the supporting characters, while thin, never actively undermined the central story. The film understood what audiences wanted: a reliable narrative structure filled with humor and genuine affection between the leads, not a plot that would surprise or challenge them. A limitation of this approach is that it creates a narrow margin for error. Every moment must justify its existence through humor or character building because there is no complex plot machinery to carry the narrative forward. If the chemistry had been absent or the supporting cast distractingly bad, there would be no mechanism to salvage the film. Anyone But You avoided this trap, but many rom-coms fail precisely because they overestimate how much plot thinness an audience will tolerate if the leads aren’t compelling. The film’s success, while significant, is also fragile—it works specifically because of its specific cast and tone, not because of any groundbreaking structural innovation.

The Box Office Milestone of Budget-to-Return Ratio

Anyone But You’s financial performance deserves particular emphasis because it illustrates why studios should theoretically care more about romantic comedies. The film cost approximately $25 million to produce—a remarkably modest budget for a theatrical release with two recognizable actors and an exotic filming location. The $218 million worldwide gross represents a return of nearly 900 percent on production costs. Compare this to major action franchises like recent superhero films, which often cost $200-300 million and require that level of return just to break even.

Any successful rom-com is exponentially more profitable than a moderately successful blockbuster, yet studios continue to green-light expensive action films while shelving comedies. The financial efficiency of the rom-com model should make it the most desirable genre from a purely economic perspective. Lower production costs mean lower financial risk, and if a film connects—as Anyone But You demonstrably did—the profit margins are extraordinary. That studios have not responded to this economic reality by investing heavily in romantic comedies suggests the problem is not financial analysis but a persistent bias against the genre as artistically unserious, a bias that proves extraordinarily expensive.

The Specificity of Destination Wedding Comedy

The destination wedding setting of Anyone But You deserves specific analysis because it functions as an unspoken character in the film. The location—Bali, Indonesia—provides visual spectacle without requiring the film to commit to serious themes about colonialism or tourism that a more thoughtful film might engage with. The wedding itself serves as a narrative pressure cooker, a setting where characters cannot simply walk away from each other, where constant proximity forces interaction, and where the presence of other people watching the potential couple’s dynamic raises stakes artificially but effectively.

The destination wedding has become a reliable setting for romantic comedies precisely because it contains these narrative advantages while also providing inherent visual interest. The audience gets to see beautiful locations without the film needing to be a travel film or adventure story. The setting also subtly suggests an aspirational lifestyle—destination weddings are events many viewers have attended or dreamed of attending, making the film’s backdrop inherently appealing. This was one of the smaller but still significant reasons Anyone But You connected with audiences: it offered not just a romantic story but also the visual appeal of a fantasy vacation, combining two separate appeals into a single viewing experience.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why did Anyone But You succeed when other recent rom-coms failed?

The film combined genuine chemistry between its leads, a competent script, and a cultural moment when audiences were desperate for uncomplicated entertainment. Additionally, it received a full theatrical release rather than being relegated to streaming, allowing word-of-mouth momentum to build. Most failing rom-coms either lack quality in one of these areas or are starved of marketing and theatrical exposure.

Is this the start of a theatrical rom-com revival?

Any But You’s success should theoretically have triggered a rom-com renaissance, but studios have been remarkably slow to respond with increased investment in the genre. The film has been treated more as an anomaly than a market signal, meaning similar theatrical rom-coms remain rare years later.

How important was the TikTok virality to the film’s box office success?

TikTok virality extended the film’s cultural relevance and introduced it to audiences who might not have been initially interested, but the theatrical release and word-of-mouth from satisfied viewers were the primary box office drivers. Social media amplified existing success rather than creating it from nothing.

What makes the chemistry between Sydney Sweeney and Glen Powell work so effectively?

Both actors brought comedic timing, physical presence, and apparent genuine enjoyment of working together. On-camera chemistry cannot be manufactured through direction or acting technique; viewers can immediately sense whether actors actually like each other, and Sweeney and Powell clearly did.

Does the film’s plot predictability hurt its rewatchability?

Once viewers know how the romantic storyline resolves, there is limited reason to return to the film since the plot offers no surprises and the supporting story elements are thin. The film is designed as a single satisfying viewing experience rather than something that deepens on revisiting.


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